0.1 Are you a boy or a girl?
Boy
1.1 Think of some person who you consider to be interesting: list 5-6 characteristics that influenced your opinion.
Boldness, Humorous, Determination, Hard-working, Artistic
1.2 Tell us, are you an interesting person? Why?
Yes. Because I have always been against the mainstream
1.3 What qualities in people you like the least?
Rudeness, ignorance, hatefulness
2 When you meet a new person, what do you notice right away? give an example.
Their conversation. What’s on their mind. Usually tells you how intelligent they are and what they hold important
3 What is a spiritual/harmonious individual?
One who is not in a hurry
3.1 What is an unspiritual/unharmonious person?
One who does not love himself
3.2 Do you find yourself to be harmonious?
Most of the time, yes
4 How often are you running late?
Very seldom
4.1 How do you feel if someone’s late? -do you express you disappointment or not?
I feel disappointed but don’t express it
4.2 If so, how? (example)
5 How would you handle the situation when you are alone and you have nothing to do?
I would always have something to do
6 What is coziness?
A situation you wish to stay in indefinitely
6.1 What s comfort?
Knowing that you can be yourself
6.2 What do you do to make a place feel cozy?
Adjust the heat. Sit comfortably
6.3 Comfortable?
Dress in light clothing, surround yourself with the things you like
7 How do you buy clothes?
Look at everything on sale and find the 1 or 2 tasteful items
7.1 How do you determine what flatters you and what doesn’t?
If you feel patronized or used, it’s flattery
7.2 Do you like being complimented? Is it a necessity for you?
It’s nice but not important
7.3 How do you react to criticism?
Feel offended but understand the importance of learning from criticism
8 Do you give others advices regarding their clothes and style?
never
8.1 What person would you listen in terms of receiving such advices?
No one
9 If you see your neighbor in the morning, would you remember what he was wearing?
50/50 chance
9.1 Can you recall what your co-worker was wearing today?
Yes
10 What is pleasant physiological feeling? Give an example.
Knowing that you are relieved of a responsibility
10.1 Unpleasant feeling?
When someone has negative feelings about you
10.2 What do you do to get pleasant feelings?
Exercise, play music, smoke/drink, read poetry
11 Imagine, your computer/TV/washer has broken. what would you do?
Play music
11.1 How do you handle the situation when something brakes in the most unpredictable time?
Work on something else
12 Your boss gave you some project, and you failed to complete it (forgot, or couldn’t do it foro whatever reason) .What would do you feel? How common the described situation is for you?
Frustrated but NOT mad at myself. Somewhat common
13 What is a practical person?
One who doesn’t dwell on mistakes
13.1 Are you practical?
Half of the time
13.2 Why?
Because I see value in it
13.3 How do you react if someone calls you practical?
Its bittersweet, it’s a compliment but it can imply that you’re ordinary
13.4 Unpractical?
Not necessarily bad
14 How do you behave if you need to fit in new working environment?
I can be part of the team when I need to
14.1 What do you do to gain respect?
Try to impress with my ideas
14.2 How do you determine that you have respect of others?
If they have a good heart or an impressive skill
15 What is an argument?
A disagreement that people cannot let go
15.1 In what situation you would argue with another person?
Only to protect someone. Otherwise I don’t care if someone disagrees with me
15.2 Can you change your mind? Or consider yourself being incorrect? In what situation? Give example
Yes. It’s an important part of being open-minded. I used to not like saxophone playing but now I appreciate it
16 If you see that a close to you person is in a bad mood, quite and mean. How do you react?
Stay away from them
16.1 Would you do anything to change that?
Probably not
16.2 What is mood?
How a person feels
16.3 How do you determine what mood the person has?
Their attitude and tone
16.4 How mood can be changed?
By getting involved n some activity
17 Tell us, please, can you initiate a fight?
Can, but wouldn’t want to
17.1 Why would you do that?
If I lost control and became enraged
17.2 If you got in a fight with someone, who would be the first to take steps in making up?
probably
17.3 What do you feel if someone has gotten offended by you?
Fell like I was misunderstood and want to explain myself
18 How do you determine how people perceive you?
By how friendly or engaged they are
18.1 What makes you feel that you are correct in your determination?
I understand that it’s only a guess
19 If someone says they admire you, what’s your reaction?
Feels good
19.1 Why?
Because it makes you feel valued
20 What do you find disturbing in communication with people or generally in life? Give example.
Nothing really
